This spring reset was about more than just cleaning and decorating. After navigating the loss of a family member and the weight of grief, I found myself in a rut, disconnected from my routines and surroundings. This video captures my journey of gently stepping back into life, catching up on long-overdue cleaning, adding fresh touches to my space, brewing some cold brew, and finding small joys in a Joann Fabrics and thrift haul.
If you’ve been feeling stuck or overwhelmed, I hope this video offers comfort and motivation. It reminds you that it’s okay to start small, to take your time, and to find your way back to yourself at your own pace.
If you enjoyed this spring reset, you will love my other reset videos on my YouTube channel!
What if you could end 2024 with clarity, purpose, and a plan for building the life you’ve always dreamed of? That’s where a life audit comes in—a powerful tool for reflection and goal-setting. Whether it’s celebrating your progress, identifying areas for growth, or setting meaningful goals, a life audit helps you reconnect with yourself and create the future you want.
In my latest video, I walk you through how to conduct a life audit that’s structured yet stress-free. This is about more than just checking off boxes—it’s about taking an honest look at your life and making intentional choices for the year ahead. Together, we’ll reflect on the past year, assess key areas of your life, and identify patterns that can guide your growth.
To make this process even easier, I’ve created a FREE DOWNLOADABLE WORKSHEET designed to guide you step by step. It includes prompts and exercises like:
Reflecting on your most joyful and challenging moments.
Assessing how your time aligns with your values and priorities.
Evaluating key areas of your life, from relationships to personal growth.
Carve out some time to prioritize yourself. Pour a cup of tea, grab your favorite pen, and find a cozy spot to work through this process. It’s a chance to slow down, reflect, and prepare yourself for an incredible 2025.
By the end of this audit, you’ll have a clear direction and renewed motivation to tackle your goals with confidence.
Ready to get started? Click here to DOWNLOAD the worksheet. Don’t forget to watch the video here for a full walkthrough. Let me know in the comments what areas of your life you’re most excited to focus on—I’d love to hear from you!
Want more goal planning and cozy productive tips and tricks? Click here to read my other articles about self-care, goal planning, and morning routines.
A Gilmore Girls Guide to Fall: Embrace the Cozy Vibes of Stars Hollow
Welcome to Stars Hollow—or at least the next best thing. Imagine crisp autumn air, the smell of freshly brewed coffee, and the comforting crunch of leaves beneath your feet. Fall is here, and for those of us who adore Gilmore Girls, there’s no better time to channel the cozy charm of Stars Hollow and create your own Gilmore Girls fall. In this guide, I’ll share tips on fall fashion, home decor, movie nights, and more to help you live your best Gilmore-inspired autumn.
Gilmore Girls Fashion
What’s fall without the perfect outfit? Just like Lorelai and Rory, you can embrace the changing season with outfits that are stylish yet comfortable. Let’s break down their signature fall looks.
Lorelai’s Style: Bold, Playful, and Chic Lorelai is about making a statement with her fall wardrobe. From bright colors and mixed patterns to chic outerwear, she knows how to stand out. To recreate her look, start with some key wardrobe pieces:
Outerwear: Trench coats, leather jackets, and fitted blazers.
Tops: Graphic tees, button-downs, and blouses.
Bottoms: Bootcut jeans, trousers, pencil skirts, and dresses.
Accessories: Chunky belts, statement scarves, and quirky hats.
Rory’s Style: Cozy, Comfortable, and Practical Rory’s style evolves from cozy, laid-back outfits to more polished looks as she matures, but comfort is always key.
Outerwear: Sweaters, cardigans, and jean jackets.
Tops: Simple tees, Henley tops, and casual button-downs.
Bottoms: Bootcut jeans, casual skirts, and occasional dresses.
Footwear: Converse sneakers and boots. Rory keeps her accessories minimal, often adding a simple scarf or backpack to complete her look.
Whether you’re running errands or enjoying a coffee date, channeling Gilmore Girls fashion is the perfect way to stay cozy and stylish this season.
Create the Ultimate Gilmore Girls Home Ambiance
To truly embrace the Gilmore Girls fall vibe, you need to transform your home into a cozy autumn haven. The key is to capture the warmth and charm that makes Stars Hollow so inviting.
Decor and Ambiance Tips:
Quirky Fall Decorations: Just like Stars Hollow, embrace vintage and quirky fall decorations. Think oversized pumpkins, faux cobwebs, and Thanksgiving-themed decor.
Warm Lighting: Swap out harsh overhead lights for cozy lamps. Soft, warm lighting will create that inviting atmosphere we love from the Gilmore house.
Cozy Textures: Add chunky knit throws and soft pillows in rich autumnal tones like orange, red, and gold.
Candles: Light candles with scents like pumpkin spice, cinnamon, coffee, or apple cider to fill your space with fall aromas.
Eclectic Decor: Mix family heirlooms with unique finds from thrift stores. Incorporate mismatched furniture and quirky knick-knacks for that lived-in, Stars Hollow charm.
Don’t forget to create a cozy reading nook, perfect for curling up with your favorite fall books!
Host a Gilmore Movie Night
No Gilmore Girls autumn would be complete without a cozy movie night. Before diving into my top fall movie picks, let’s set the mood:
Candles: Bonus points if they’re fall-scented!
Snacks: Grab your favorite takeout (pizza or Chinese), make some popcorn, and don’t forget the ice cream for dessert. Now that the ambiance is set, here are some movie recommendations to bring the Gilmore Girls magic to your fall evenings:
Rosemary’s Baby (1968): A suspenseful classic, perfect for a spooky night.
The Exorcist (1973): For fans of thrilling, eerie tales.
You’ve Got Mail (1998): A heartwarming rom-com that’s ideal for fall.
When Harry Met Sally (1989): Romantic and cozy, with iconic autumn scenes.
Practical Magic (1998): Witchy, warm vibes that scream fall.
Mystic Pizza (1988): A small-town story with a coming-of-age twist.
Favorite Gilmore Girls Fall Episodes
We can’t talk about a Gilmore Girls fall without mentioning the iconic fall episodes from the show. These episodes capture everything we love about autumn in Stars Hollow, from Rory’s birthday parties to quirky town festivals. Some of my personal favorites include:
A Deep-Fried Korean Thanksgiving
The Festival of Living Art (one of my all-time favorites!)
Rewatching these episodes always makes me feel like I’m right there in Stars Hollow, experiencing the fall magic with Lorelai and Rory.
Fall Books for Gilmore Girls Vibes
Autumn is the perfect time to get lost in a great book. To truly feel like you’re living in Stars Hollow, why not recreate Rory’s habit of carrying a book everywhere you go or reading on a park bench? Here are some fall book recommendations with Gilmore Girls charm:
The City Baker’s Guide to Country Living by Louise Miller: A pastry chef finds her place in a small New England town, full of cozy, rural vibes.
Empire Falls by Richard Russo: A richly developed small-town story that mirrors Stars Hollow’s sense of community.
Carrie by Stephen King: A chilling story of a high school girl with telekinetic powers, perfect for suspenseful fall reading.
Frankenstein by Mary Shelley: For a bit of suspense, this classic is perfect for darker fall days.
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë: A timeless novel filled with love, mystery, and the perfect amount of brooding fall atmosphere.
Fun Fall Activities Inspired by Gilmore Girls
If there’s one thing that really captures the Gilmore Girls fall vibe, it’s attending a fall festival. Every year, I make it a point to visit a local farm for a fall festival. There’s pumpkin picking, hayrides, delicious seasonal food, and so much autumnal fun to be had. One of my favorite stops at this festival is a diner nearby that serves the best pumpkin pancakes I’ve ever had—it’s a total Gilmore Girls moment.
Aside from my yearly festival tradition, I love exploring different festivals in small towns outside of Pittsburgh. There’s something so charming about discovering new fall activities, foods, and cozy spots just like Rory and Lorelai would.
If festivals aren’t your thing, you can also:
Celebrate Rory’s Birthday: Host a Gilmore-themed watch party or throw yourself a Rory Gilmore-inspired birthday celebration with coffee, pizza, and plenty of junk food.
Visit a Local Diner: Enjoy breakfast or lunch at your local diner, just like Lorelai and Rory’s regular visits to Luke’s.
Bake Treats Like Sookie: Whip up some delicious fall treats—pumpkin muffins, anyone?
Attend a Fall Festival: Just like the many Stars Hollow festivals, visit a local fall festival to embrace the season. From pumpkin patches to hayrides, there are so many ways to celebrate autumn in true Gilmore fashion.
If you want to get into the fall baking mood and channel your inner Sookie St. James, check out my latest Gilmore Girls video featuring the Rocky Road Cookies from Sookie’s Recipe Book!
My Rory Gilmore Birthday Party
Last year, I decided to throw myself a Rory Gilmore-themed birthday party, and it was the perfect way to embrace the fall season. I had my friends dress up as their favorite Gilmore Girls characters—of course, I went as Rory, complete with a pink feather boa and a “Happy Birthday” hat, just like in the “Rory’s Birthday Parties” episode.
For my cake, I recreated the chocolate cake from Rory’s 21st birthday episode, adding pearl sprinkles and faux florals to match. We even served coffee in Luke’s Diner-themed takeaway cups I found online! To keep things fun, we played Gilmore Girls bingo, where we checked off moments like “Emily says something condescending,” and the winner got a Gilmore Girls-scented candle as a prize.
This guide will help you bring a little Gilmore Girls autumn magic into your life, whether it’s through fashion, home decor, or fun fall activities. Embrace the cozy, quirky charm of Stars Hollow and make this fall your coziest one yet. From recreating Lorelai and Rory’s iconic style to hosting your own Gilmore Girls movie night or attending a local fall festival, there are endless ways to capture that special autumn feeling.
If you’re ready to dive even deeper into the Gilmore Girls fall vibes, don’t miss my YouTube video, “How to Have a Gilmore Girls Fall.” In the video, I take you step-by-step through my favorite fall-inspired activities, outfits, and decor, bringing the cozy spirit of Stars Hollow to life. Watch the video for even more tips and tricks to make this autumn the ultimate Gilmore Girls season!
Grab your favorite cup of coffee, cozy up with a blanket, and click here to watch “How to Have a Gilmore Girls Fall” on YouTube. Let’s make this autumn as magical as a walk through Stars Hollow!
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, it’s easy to overlook the importance of self-care. That’s why I’m inviting you to join me on a cozy self-care day vlog, set against the backdrop of a rainy spring afternoon.
Recently, I’ve found myself deeply immersed in my job search and YouTube content creation, often neglecting much-needed breaks and self-care. Recognizing this, I made a conscious choice to set aside a day solely for relaxation and personal well-being.
As the rain taps softly against the window I start journaling and doing a brain dump to get out all of the random thoughts running through my head. Writing down my thoughts helps me clear my mind and set positive intentions for the day ahead.
Next, I dive into a bit of culinary therapy by baking some tasty brownies. The smell of chocolate wafting through the kitchen instantly lifts my spirits.
After satisfying my sweet tooth, I treat myself to a manicure. Taking the time to care for my nails not only makes them look good but also provides a moment of relaxation and self-pampering.
As evening approaches, I curl up on the couch with a cozy blanket and the movie “Damsel” on Netflix, starring Millie Bobby Brown. It’s a simple pleasure, but one that allows me to fully unwind and embrace the tranquility of the moment.
In a world that often feels overwhelming, taking time for self-care is essential. Whether it’s through journaling, indulging in homemade treats, pampering yourself, or simply relaxing with a good movie, prioritizing self-care is a meaningful way to show yourself some love.
I hope you enjoyed watching my cozy self-care day video. Don’t forget to subscribe to my channel so you never miss a video!
Previously on the Unemployed Diaries: Back in January I was inexpediently laid off from my job of 8 years. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do next but, I knew I wanted to document this experience and share it with others, thus the Unemployed Diaries was born. Since then I have applied to over a dozen jobs without a single interview, I started taking the Google Digital Marketing & E-Commerce certification to switch my career into digital marketing, planning side hustle businesses, and posting weekly on YouTube. Subscribe to my channel to see my journey and share your experiences working in the corporate world.
Hey there, welcome back to the latest episode of the Unemployed Diaries! Today, I am taking you with me through a typical day in the life of being unemployed.
Throughout the day, I’ll be providing updates on my ongoing job search. And of course, I’ll answer your questions from previous episodes, addressing everything from financial concerns to tips for staying mentally resilient in the face of uncertainty.
So please grab a cup of coffee (or your beverage of choice) and join me for another day in the life of the Unemployed Diaries. It’s sure to be an adventure you won’t want to miss!
Embracing Spring, Setting Goals, and Sharing Favorites
Spring is here, and it’s time to reset with me for March 2024. As we welcome the season of renewal, let’s embark on a journey of growth, productivity, and self-discovery together.
In my latest YouTube video, I’ll tackle some monthly cleaning tasks, including cleaning my hair brushes, giving the oven a thorough scrub, and the bi-monthly Ninja coffee machine clean These small tasks may seem insignificant, but they contribute to creating a fresh and welcoming environment in our homes.
Speaking of YouTube, one of my goals for March is to publish four videos and four short-form clips on Instagram and TikTok. Make sure you subscribe to my channels for the upcoming videos for March that include a spring reset, a self-care day vlog, and the third installment of my Unemployed Diaries Series.
Another goal of mine is to prioritize my physical well-being by incorporating daily walks into my routine. I plan to take a brisk walk during lunchtime to clear my mind and boost my energy levels, and I aim to incorporate morning walks as soon as I wake up to kickstart my day on a positive note.
On the learning front, I’m committed to finishing courses 2 and 3 of the Google Digital Marketing and E-Commerce certificate program on Coursera. If you haven’t seen my previous videos, I was unexpectedly laid off in January and I am now working towards changing my career to Digital Marketing and content creation.
Now, let’s talk favorites! In the food category, some highlights from last month include homemade (by my wonderful boyfriend) heart-shaped pizza for Valentine’s Day, refreshing cold brew coffee, and nutritious meal prep bowls. As for literature, “Nettle and Bone” by T. Kingfisher was my favorite read in February.
In the TV and movie category, I binge-watched “Ugly Betty” and “Dynasty” during downtime.
When it comes to my favorite memories from the past month I want to cherish Galentine’s Day brunch and thrift shopping with my friends, a solo coffee shop date, and the warm spring weather.
Lastly, let’s not forget about my favorite purchases! I indulged in delicious coffee from Just Coffee Co-Op and stumbled upon two thrift store treasures—a vintage purse and two miniature portraits of elegant ladies.
As we reset for March, let’s embrace the opportunities for growth, productivity, and joy this new season brings. Together, we’ll make the most of each day, celebrate our achievements, and support each other on our journey toward success. Here’s to a month filled with progress, positivity, and plenty of springtime cheer!
Welcome to my 8 AM realistic winter morning routine! Today, I invite you to join me in a glimpse of how my mornings unfold during this serene season, blending productivity with comfort.
My day typically begins around 8 AM, allowing myself the luxury of sleeping in a bit longer to indulge in the comfort of my warm bed. As I gradually awaken, I relish the quiet moments before the day’s hustle and bustle begins.
If you are interested in watching my full winter morning routine, head over to my YouTube channel to watch this week’s video. There, you’ll find a detailed visual guide to how I navigate these winter mornings, from skincare to breakfast rituals.
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I lost my job last week and decided I wanted to document and share my experience with others on my YouTube channel.
In this video, I share with you all of the thoughts and emotions of my unexpected job loss. I discuss the possibility of changing careers and trying full-time content creation.
Come along with me during 2023 goal-planning session!
In this video, I provide an in-depth look at the cultivate what matters power sheets goal planner. I also give a quick review of my 2022 goals and share with you my 2023 goals!
The Ultimate Holiday Vlog: haul, making ornaments, creating a hot drink bar & winter bucket list
Hello! I hope you enjoy this festive video. I take you with me as I share the winter decorations and the items I purchased to make my family gift bags for this holiday season, I also make salt dough ornaments, create a winter hot drink bar and share with you my winter bucket list.
As mentioned in the video, you can download the bucket list here.
